{"id":987987,"date":"2023-10-15T13:19:58","date_gmt":"2023-10-15T12:19:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/?p=987987"},"modified":"2024-06-30T12:59:24","modified_gmt":"2024-06-30T11:59:24","slug":"no-regrets","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/no-regrets\/","title":{"rendered":"Nuk ka pendim"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"987987\" class=\"elementor elementor-987987\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-234b348 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"234b348\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6e6151b\" data-id=\"6e6151b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d010e88 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d010e88\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.17.0 - 25-10-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>N\u00eb librin \u201cThe Power of Regret\u201d, Daniel Pink flet p\u00ebr \u201cpishmon\u00ebt\u201d (keqardhjet) q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb mbajtur peng gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lib\u00ebr autori i ndau keqardhjet n\u00eb kat\u00ebr kategori kryesore: keqardhjet themelore (q\u00eb lidhen me sh\u00ebndetin, arsimin, financat etj.), keqardhjet si munges\u00eb guximi (shanset q\u00eb nuk i p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb), keqardhjet morale (q\u00eb vijn\u00eb nga bindjet e t\u00eb qenit \u201ci drejt\u00eb, i moralsh\u00ebm\u201d), nd\u00ebrsa numrin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh e p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb keqardhjet p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt (mungesa e kushtimit t\u00eb koh\u00ebs p\u00ebr familjen, t\u00eb dashurit, partnerin, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me ta etj.).<\/p><p>Pak muaj para se babai im t\u00eb ndahej nga jeta, duke ditur potencialin e tij dhe pun\u00ebn e palodhshme q\u00eb kishit b\u00ebr\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj si njeri i zellsh\u00ebm, i orientuar nga familja, me shum\u00eb vite karrier\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e financave, pyeti:<\/p><p>\"A keni ndonj\u00eb pishman n\u00eb jet\u00eb?\"<\/p><p>\u2013 \u201cJo\u201d \u2013 p\u00ebrgjigjem. \u201cNuk pendohem p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb. Sepse gjithmon\u00eb kam zgjedhur rrug\u00ebn e duhur t\u00eb MOMENTIT\u201d.<\/p><p>Un\u00eb, natyrisht, nuk u k\u00ebnaqa me p\u00ebrgjigjen e tij, sidomos duke ditur mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb kishte n\u00eb karrier\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb begat\u00eb. Mendja ime logjike donte t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte p\u00ebrgjigje logjike p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb vijave t\u00eb \"N\u00ebse do t\u00eb kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb X, do t\u00eb kisha p\u00ebrfituar nga Y\".<\/p><p>\"Programet\" (t\u00eb cilat transmetohen p\u00ebrmes besimeve t\u00eb instaluara n\u00eb trurin ton\u00eb) diktojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe vendimet tona t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb operojm\u00eb jasht\u00eb k\u00ebtyre \"programeve\", shanset jan\u00eb q\u00eb po operojm\u00eb n\u00eb modalitetin e frym\u00ebzimit. Kur jemi n\u00eb frym\u00ebzim, ne jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen, t\u00eb pavarur nga e kaluara dhe programi. Prandaj, ne mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb shpjegohen nga mendja logjike. Ajo q\u00eb dim\u00eb dhe ndiejm\u00eb kur jemi n\u00eb modalitetin e frym\u00ebzimit \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja e t\u00eb qenit t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur, t\u00eb lumtur dhe n\u00eb rrjedh\u00ebn e natyrshme me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb Universin.<\/p><p>Pas disa muajsh babai im nd\u00ebrroi jet\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb e kuptova se ai kishte vepruar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e frym\u00ebzimit. Dhe ky ishte sekreti i tij, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb pa keqardhje.<\/p><p>Megjithat\u00eb, duhet nj\u00eb nivel i caktuar nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje. N\u00eb pun\u00ebn time si hipnoterapist, un\u00eb i ndihmoj klient\u00ebt t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje frym\u00ebzimi, duke kap\u00ebrcyer \"programet\" e mendjes s\u00eb tyre.<\/p><p>Life &#8220;without regrets&#8221; is the most beautiful life realized. It is for powerful souls who live with full awareness and faith that a life lived in inspiration is the most beautiful possible inscription of their life script. by Rreze Xhaferi\u00a0https:\/\/www.rreze.com\/pa-pishmon\/<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the book &#8220;The Power of Regret&#8221;, Daniel Pink talks about the &#8220;pishmons&#8221; (regrets) that people have held hostage during their lives. In this book, the author divided regrets into four main categories: basic regrets (related to health, education, finances, etc.), regrets as a lack of courage (chances that we do not experience in life),&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":991930,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[96],"tags":[54],"class_list":["post-987987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mind","tag-dna-health-that-happy-health"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/987987"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=987987"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/987987\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":992362,"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/987987\/revisions\/992362"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/991930"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=987987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=987987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=987987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}