{"id":991935,"date":"2024-04-13T19:09:52","date_gmt":"2024-04-13T18:09:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/?p=991935"},"modified":"2024-04-13T19:10:16","modified_gmt":"2024-04-13T18:10:16","slug":"writing-as-an-internal-dialogue-with-oneself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thathappyhealth.com\/sq\/writing-as-an-internal-dialogue-with-oneself\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00eb shkruarit si nj\u00eb dialog i brendsh\u00ebm me veten"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"991935\" class=\"elementor elementor-991935\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-234b348 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"234b348\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6e6151b\" data-id=\"6e6151b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d010e88 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d010e88\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.17.0 - 25-10-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>T\u00eb shkruarit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e fuqishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar jo vet\u00ebm me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb me veten. T\u00eb shkruash \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh vetvetja. Nuk mund ta imagjinoj se si mund t\u00eb shkruash dhe t\u00eb mos jesh i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb! E kuptoj deri diku se si nuk mund t\u00eb thuash t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn e plot\u00eb kur je n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar kur flet\/p\u00ebrballesh drejtp\u00ebrdrejt me dik\u00eb. Por t\u00eb ulesh dhe t\u00eb shkruash \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt ndryshe. \u00cbsht\u00eb akti m\u00eb i bukur dhe m\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb i komunikimit me veten.<\/p><p>Kur ulem dhe shkruaj, ndjej sa shum\u00eb fjal\u00eb, mendime dhe ide shfaqen pa efekt dhe p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb dep\u00ebrtojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. N\u00eb gar\u00ebn mes tyre, vet\u00ebm disa arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb sinapsin e fundit t\u00eb trurit, i cili i \u201cp\u00ebrkthen\u201d ato mendime n\u00eb shkrim. Nd\u00ebrsa, nd\u00ebrgjegjja ime i pret derisa t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb q\u00ebllimin e duhur dhe t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb pragun p\u00ebr t'u \u201cshnd\u00ebrruar\u201d n\u00eb shkrim.<\/p><p>T\u00eb shkruarit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dialog i brendsh\u00ebm me veten. Edhe kur shkruani p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Si mund t\u00eb mos jesh autentik kur flet me veten? Eshte e pamundur.<\/p><p>Por jo vet\u00ebm kaq. Ky proces shkon edhe m\u00eb thell\u00eb. N\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet kanalit t\u00eb komunikimit me veten, ju lidheni paralelisht me veten tuaj t\u00eb brendshme, m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, nga e cila merrni frym\u00ebzime nj\u00eb nga nj\u00eb.<\/p><p>\u00cbsht\u00eb si shiu i ver\u00ebs q\u00eb bie pa ndalur dhe t\u00eb kap befas n\u00eb mes t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs. Ndjenjat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira e keni kur dor\u00ebzoheni dhe ndjeni \u00e7do pik\u00eb (shiu) q\u00eb bie n\u00eb trupin tuaj. Me rritjen e ndjeshm\u00ebris\u00eb, filloni t\u00eb ndjeni pikat q\u00eb bien rreth jush: n\u00eb trotuare, nd\u00ebrtesa, n\u00eb tok\u00eb, asfalt. Derisa t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh NJ\u00cb me shiun. Dhe kjo ndjesi vazhdon deri sa t\u00eb mbaroj\u00eb shiu, deri n\u00eb momentin kur b\u00ebhesh qull dhe nuk qan kok\u00ebn se si dukesh nga jasht\u00eb apo si shohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb fshihen n\u00eb streh\u00ebzat brenda nd\u00ebrtesave t\u00eb tyre.<\/p><p>I till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb akti i t\u00eb shprehurit me shkrim. I past\u00ebr, i ndersh\u00ebm, natyral, energjik dhe pasionant.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Writing is a powerful way of communicating not only with others, but with yourself first. To write is to be yourself. I can&#8217;t imagine how you can write and not be true! 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